Maybe YOU are why can’t find your person…
Enough with for women who BELIEVE in love and the manipulative BS spouted on You TUBE by every crystal rubbing.. or cute thirty something dude selling manipulative . make him fear losing you or guaranteed to get a text back.. .. Ok.. yep.. You go all Journey and Don’t Stop Believing… BUT you have to start acting as well.. WOO WOO plus pragmatism will get you somewhere.
I look at things like the Bachelor or bachelorette… Bullshit.. First off a troll could get laid or find LOVE in a setting like that with all the $ in the world and not a care in the world and things planned …
Manipulation, magic texts, 22 laws to guarantee a second date… horse shit. Let me they work… IF YOU ARE ON POINT… but the problem is like the overweight person reading about workout routines but to losing weight… could it be becuase you have a bag full of Taco Bell every night.. the same applies here.
Manifesting your dream guy or your should mate or how every woman and man DESERVES to find love and be treated like a king or queen… Yes.. we ALL deserve it.. BUT we ALL are not going to find it… at least in our current state.
It is not as easy as hack, a formula , a three step process, a vision board or manifestation… you have to put in the work.
I know to some people that’s heresy… but the dirty ugly truth that nobody tells you (because it’s not sexy) is… sometimes the reason is not becuase your not manifesting it… (you sure as hell can’do it in theree days or a week.
sometimes…. The problem… is YOU.
You’re just being a shitty human.
Look I’m all about that woo woo and spiritual stuff… but I’m also pragmatic as hell.
It’s like being in a gym I can manifest being in shape but If I’m drinking and eating tacos at 11:00 at night and never step in a gym… I can wish hope and pray all I want and all I’m going to get is a bigger pair of pants.
Look in the mirror.
Belief works.
I’m also prewired with a heaping helping of pragmatism. Which means that no amount of tactics, belief or visioning will get you what you want until you get out of your way and take a look in the mirror and if necessary get out of your own way or put in the work.
Hey… you’re a self absorbed narcissist
Hey… you’re spoiled and entitled princess
Hey…. You are a man child who needs a maid not a woman.
Hey… you have a case of BBD Bigger Better Deal and are never satisfied
Hey… you’re rude and have no manners
Hey… you have unrealistic expectations that nobody could ever meet.
Hey… you’re BORING AF
Hey… you don’t act like an adult.
Hey… you’re don’t communicate
Hey… you are hung up on an ex and are punishing the next person.
Hey… you’re a gold digger
Hey… you are choosing people your daughter’s age who want a sugar daddy.
Hey… you chase bright shiny object with no substance.
Hey…. You’re chasing “projects” fixer uppers and sad, broken or damaged people so you don’t have to work on your own shit or they NEED you.
Hey… you date BELOW your level and the quality of person you deserve… because it is easy and means you don’t hav to step up your game.
Hey.. you don’t know what you want.
Hey.. what you want and what you NEED are not the same
… I can go on… BUT the problem (sometimes… not always) can be… YOU.
And shit won’t change…. Until you recognize it and make the necessary moves.
Bradley
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